What is Healing?
There is a vast miscomprehension of what Healing actually is. It takes “The Big Picture” to really comprehend this.
Healing is simply two things:
- Understanding
- Remembering
Understanding
Understanding is your perceived comprehension of your Logical Health.
In the Section “The Stages of Trauma,” I explain how Amnesia is a massive part of Abuse Protection.
Unfortunately, this means that you forget.
You forget You.
You forget your Ethics.
You forget your Likes.
Furthermore, the Tools of Abuse, which I will be covering, are designed to confuse you. This Confusion results in you not being able to understand what is going on or what is happening. This is what I call “The Dorian Gray Effect” and I will be breaking this down further.
In short, “The Dorian Gray Effect” is what leads to 100% of you not understanding what is happening and/or did happen to you. And, to protect you, your Subconscious Mind gives you a kind of Amnesia.
Yes. In most cases. As you heal, your memories come back. Your Amnesia ends. Your Learning explodes.
People who indulge in my work often say with great relief, “Oh, my god! That makes so much sense!” Yes. This is the result of Education and Logic.
This Logical Comprehension resolves Logical Fallacy in your Logical Health, which then releases the Trauma, and your Invasive Perspective and Mental Illness goes away. The more you learn, the more you understand, the more the Logical Fallacies resolve themselves, the more you Understand.
And when you start to understand, you start to remember. You will remember good memories, bad memories, your loves, your likes, your dislikes, your childhood. The relief brings so much relief and peace, that my students seek out more understanding, more logic, more work, more answers, which results in more remembering, more understanding, more peace.
This is something I call this the Healing Spiral Ascent : Understanding + Remembering + Relief Cycle and, this is the best part, it counters the Trauma Spiral Descent : Amnesia + Confusion + Fear.
By the way, Fear of the Unknown is the Primary and Core fear in all of us. And guess what grows the more you forget and are confused? The Unknown. I often said that “Fear of the Unknown” is actually Fear of the Unknown Self. Meaning that the True Unknown the Self in a dreaded scenario. “Will I win?” “Will I lose?” “Will I succeed?” “Will I fail?” “Will I arise Victorious?”
Fear of the Unknown is Uncertainty of the Fate of the Untested Self. But, with proper preparation, training, learning, and education, just like any test preparations, anyone can prepare, train, learn, and study and, yes, pass.
This book is strategically designed to walk you through this process while you learn it. So you heal while you learn. I cover what to expect, the process, and the tools you will need before you need them.
I am also working on a Workbook that partners with this process beautifully so that you can be guided through the process perfectly.
In addition, Quarterly Annual Events “The Healing Garden Summit” and The Philosopher’s Club, provides a Healing Community for everyone to join in the process. My Heal-With-You-Grow-With-You provides you with the perfect environment and Social Resources to ensure a Healthy and Wellness Centered Networking and Social space, without the worry of attracting more toxic people.
This book can be read with your current therapy, alongside it, DIY, alone, or with a group. The choice is yours.