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This one is hard for all people to accept.
This is the Core Truth that sits at the heart of most unaddressed abuse.
This is the Ultimate Truth that the Subconscious Mind hides from most of us.
When you start to do the math, you become more and more aware of one Truth:
“If [Name of Loved one] did Love me, then they would have not done or allowed [Insert Behavior].”
This is where I sit down next to you and very gentle give you my presence.
Some people are not Born In Love. They simply do not know what Love is. It is sad. It doesn’t mean they don’t love you. It does mean they were never taught what love does look like.
It does not deny their feelings of you.
It does mean that these are people who have a blank or false information where “Love” is defined in their Logical Code.
What is Love is the First Logical Code. It is the Foundation of all Logical Code. It is the First Logic.
It does not mean you cannot love them. It does not mean you should or shouldn’t love them.
It does mean that they are CONFUSED.
They are Confused because their life was hard. Take those words. Process them. This journey you are on is the “Un-Confusion” of you. It does not take them away from you.
It does help you to understand the Truth. They do love you in their own way, but it is a very confusing way. And your Love for them is never an excuse(Justification) to allow anyone to hurt you.
Sometimes, we do have to make changes to protect our self from those who do love us.
But know this. Their Confusion is not at all a Reflection or a Metric on who you are. It is only a Reflection and a Metric on who they are. And they are just Confused.
Their Logic is missing the First Logic. And only in Love can things Grow. Love comes to you when you know what Love is. When you can turn that Love in to yourself.
Loving Yourself is all the nutrients you need to grow. And the more you Love you, the more You nurture and grow, the more Skills and Resources you gain, then, the more Proof of Concept you gain.
Worth and Value is not measured by what we are or what we have or what we know, it is measured by our Potential; undiscovered or known. This is why an Infant is just as important in Value and Worth as a Grown Adult.
When sperm comes to egg, Two Seeds… both Seeds carry the Whole of Summation of the Integrated Two Wholes in a compact, Microscopic Cell. One Cell is all the Value and Worth of One Whole Grown Person.
You have Worth. You have Value. You are already Fertilized. Now, we just need to add Love… Self-Love, some Direction, and then, you will Grow. Your Potential will Blossom.
You will take your place in the Network, and you will do great things in this world. That is all the Undiscovered Potential that waits inside of you.
Equal Footing (6th Ethic) is absolutely something that applies to every single one of us. You have a right to your place in this world. You do Matter. You have Mass. You are Someone. You can create Chain Reactions and Set off Consequences. You can be trained to be a Catalyst.
Blame. Responsibility. Guilt. Shame. These are emotions that do not belong to you.
They are “Stations” that others put on you. You can choose to Nurture the Good Parts of you. The Growing Part. Or you can choose to Nurture the Toxic Parts that were put inside of you.
Because you were not born with the Toxic Parts. Someone else put them there. And you have the Power to cast them out.
And that is what we will teach you to do here.
You are loved. Love Your Self for there is that Part of you that loved you so much, that you did everything you could to keep you safe no matter what.
Love Your Self for there is that Part of you that loved you so much, that you did everything you could to keep you Good.
Love Your Self for there is that Part of you that loved you so much, that you desired and wanted for nothing more than to love, be Loved, and Be a Good person. And when you want it, you become, you are… Because we are defined only by what we Value and DESIRE in life.
And you are here, right now, reading this, because you Love Your Self so much that You chose to be here for you.
Already, you are loved. And that… That is enough for you now to Grow.
From The Philosophical Coffee Workbook (This Workbook will be available for purchase in 2025 on Amazon)
Your Assignment:
Look for signs of how you do Love you. The next Lesson will provide you with examples of this and ways you can look for ways that your Subconscious Mind protects you.
In Your Journal/Blog/Podcast:
Talk about what you do for Self-Love and what your Subconscious Mind has done for you. Reflect on this. Look for examples and proof of how your Identity or Subconscious Mind has nurtured you and protected you.
Use #TriadicHealing in your post.
Ponder This:
Your Subconscious Mind is scared. Not you. Your Subconscious Mind is. Your Conscious Awareness just “reads” the Feelings of your Subconscious Mind. 100% of all of your Emotions comes from your Subconscious Mind.
Your Feelings come from Identity. Soothe your Subconscious Mind. Give them both (Identity and Subconscious Mind) a kind name. Attacking the Subconscious Mind, heightens its Self-Preservation and Fear.
We don’t “teach.” We Train. Learn to Learn:
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Conscious Awareness (This Article is designed to Nourish your Logical Comprehension and your Conscious Awareness)
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Mental Diversification (Practical Practiced Skills in Real Life Application)
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Exploratory Dialogues (Discussion : How To Be A Pirate Masterclass & Anna’s Weekly Workshops)
Skills To Practice In Practical Application
- The 10th Ethic, Emotional Fluidity
- Self-Honesty and Submission to The Truth
- Self-Forgiveness. You did your best.
- 12th Ethic, No Judgement. We all did what we could with what we had. Our behavior was Logic, and unfortunate, but (7th Ethic) commit to do better. Commit to the Learning and Grow.
- Aikido Philosophy
Recommended Learning to Enhance This Lesson
Our Emotional Education Course at Anna’s Healing Garden.
I want to Enroll in PANDO’s Alexandria University! What do I do to get started?
Our Learning and Training is Tiered.
Tier #1 “The Casual Learner” is basic “Attendance” and Practical Practiced Participation In Real life (No Risk. HIGH ROI)
Tier #2 “The Engaged Learner” is Joining the Discussions and Masterclasses. Literally… Mental Weight Lifting (Low Risk. HIGHER ROI)
Tier #3 “The Serious Learner” is getting the full immersive Experience to Transform your Business and Life (Medium to High Risk. HIGHEST ROI)
Augment this lesson by visiting The Garden Restaurant and browsing Anna’s Menu.