While this word is very much a familiar word to most, it is one that most people fail to associate with Narcissists and it goes unseen. 

Hypocrite is when they Say X, but do Y. 

The Narcissist says ,”Friend,” but acts like “Abuser.” 

The Narcissist says, “Love,” but acts like “User.”

The Narcissist says, “Mother,” but acts like “Hater.” 

And because we are not thinking “Hypocrite” we are not seeing Hypocrisy. This is the Primary “Trick” in the Narcissist’s Bag of Tricks.