Exploratory Dialogue
Chapter 25 – Reflection Part #2
“I imagine,” Imagination flashed a small smile, “it is because your Narcisstic Abuse Syndrome, your Relationship abuse, and your slavery threaten you where Number #1 is concerned, because he can hurt you. Raven was never in a position to hurt me. Ever.” I re-read the lines again. “But when your conditioning turned on,” Kallan continued. …
Finding Me: Chapter 23
Visibility is what the Narcissist teaches you love is. And every Narcissist has every Empath convinced of their charade. It is very important that you (and I) understand exactly what Visibility is and what it implies. You (and I) must understand the value of Visibility. Now. Visibility. Validation is Visibility. Validation is Confirmation that you …
Finding Me: Chapter 22
Bullying is a painfully misunderstood topic in the US. Around the world, actually. We think bullying is just a boy on a playground beating up a smaller boy for his milk money. The movie “Mean Girls” depicts the cliquish female version of bullying. The phrase, “sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will …
Chapter 21-Love vs. Visibility
We think we are looking for happiness. We are really looking for love. Happiness, I found. It’s love that eludes me. Happiness is just gratitude. So simple. So obvious, and yet, it isn’t until you practice true gratitude, that you find happiness. Even the words are synonymous. “I am happy for…” “I am grateful for…” …
Chapter 17
Going to therapy in those early days was like boot camp in reverse. It was like extraction. It was. I felt weak and feeble. Frail and lost. Confused. That’s what happens when your reality has been altered. I will say a million times over, that trauma survival, recovery, endurance, thriving is only a war over …